Love and Infactuation

Love Vs Infactauation

Love vs InfatuationWhat, then, is the elusive thing called "Love" that

everyone so desperately needs? Sometimes, we sort of like this girl

because she is beautiful? Or the girl likes him because he is handsome?

But this kind of "Cinderella Syndrome" when the girl is waiting on her

Prince Charming, is not real love. It is better known as ""Infatuation",

and there is a vast difference between it and real love. Enumerated here

below are the differences. Find out if you are really in love and not just

infatuated.InfatuationInfatuation is a feeling; real love involves a

commitment also. Infatuation is just love of emotion. Real love though, is

love of devotion. Only the emotions are affected in infatuation, but in

real love both the Emotions and the Will are involved. Next, a person

"fall into" infatuation, but "grows into" real love. Gentlemen, have you

ever seen a girl who was so beautiful that you thought you'd faint? This

is infatuation. It is based totally on physical attraction; Often you don't

know much in-depth about the person you so-called love. Thus

infatuation is mostly biological.Also remember, never tell a woman you

love her, unless you are willing to marry her. Then, infatuation is

basically selfish where real love is basically selfless. Infatuation is more

interested in satisfying yourself and your "feelings" than it is in the other

person.Real love is primarily interested in the other person. It seeks to

give instead of get. Love unselfishly seeks the highest good for the other

person. Lastly, infatuation is weakened by time and separation where

real love is strengthened by time and separation. This does not mean

that there will be no pain in separation. On the contrary, there is great

pain in separation if you are truly in love.