Love
Now you understand what is infatuation, let us now go on to discuss about Love.
1. Love is Patient: The word translated "patient" means to wait patiently for the fulfillment of
expectations. When you have difficulty dating this girl and she does not want to come out of her
shell, if you truly love her, you will not complain and blame her, you must look at the situation
from her point of view – maybe she is having some problems which prevented her from coming
out. You must react to it with patience and understanding.Have you ever met someone you
liked so much that you wanted to push the relationship and make it progress faster? Sure you
have! Love, however, Love is willing to give the relationship time to grow at a natural pace. It
does not push but is willing to wait for the relationship to grow at a rate that is satisfactory to
both parties.
2. Love is Kind: Love seeks to encourage and build up on others. It respects the feelings and
emotions of others. It finds its greatest satisfaction in making others happy, i.e. Compliment one
another, magnify the other's strength, Listen to one another. Pay close attention to what each of
you has to say and make each other feel that what each says is important, etc.
3. Love is not Jealous: Jealousy usually indicates an insecure and immature heart. Love
wants the best for others, but jealousy is possessive. Jealous is reflected in the childish
statement, "If he is going to talk to her, then he can just forget about me!" Often, one person
wants to totally possess the other and to restrict her relationships with others.
4. Love is not to Brag: Love is not a windbag and is not anxious to impress. Often, a guy will
brag to a girl, trying to impress her so that she will like him. A truly great person, however,
does not need to exalt himself. Others will exalt him.
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